I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For ...

When you think about it, we as Christians are supposed to strive for that new way of life. Christianity is a belief system in which people desire to be holy, or set apart. Set apart from "the world". While this quoted term is misconceived often, it does come with its own assumptions. So many believers hear the terms "worldly" and "of the world" and start running for the nearest church or youth group. But Christ says that we should stay in the world, but not become of the world. In my mind, this means that our world is tempting, yes. But it also means that our world is filled with unique and interesting people whom we are called to love and accept. That's it. We as believers should have a desire for our world. Not seclude ourselves through Christian Coffee Shops and Stores. This is something that I started thinking about recently when I picked up a book on the spiritual journey of the band U2. Their story is very interesting in that they are all Christians, and if they were in any other part of the western world, their music would not have been nearly as intriguing. This is simply because they would have gotten sucked into the realm of Contemporary Christian Music, a subculture all its own. But since the city of Dublin did not have a Christian subculture, their beliefs and music were seen as rebellious. As a result, their music grew very quickly in popularity. People were very intrigued by the group based in a Catholic environment that held strong Protestant beliefs and values. This got me thinking ... what if we lived our lives as if we were U2 in the city of Dublin? Now, we're looking past the normal band activities, but what if we became radical and rebellious believers? If we strived and fought to live in the "mainstream" world while singing songs about the love and devotion of Christ. What an amazing way to start a new life in Christ! God calls us to "be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go" (Joshua 1:9). Why are believers (including myself) so terrified by the words "worldly" and "of this world"? It's time to act like we are new creations, and set ourselves apart through our actions. Not through seclusion.

The Runaway Jury

It seems that we all come to a point of realization of just how different and unique we each are. During my time as a juror today, I have gotten to know a woman named Taylor. She has grown up in a very different situation than mine; not better or worse... just different. While I have enjoyed getting to know her, I have realized that while everyone is different in theory, everyone is basically the same. It is easy to relate to practically everyone, and I have quickly learned my love for people and their stories. This is re-instilling my passion for missions, and an effort to make a difference in peoples' lives through the love of Jesus Christ. It amazes me how much of an impact a persons' past affects who they become. Not only their past, but also their home. This is why internationals intrigue me so much.. the different mindset.  This American culture is spoiled, impatient, selfish, and ignorant. It seems the only way that someone could slap themselves out of this pattern is to see the lifestyle of a different group of people. It is always important to step out of your comfort zone and find ways to challenge how you think. Though this is a smaller experience, it has definitely done that for me. Living in Spain ( random example :) ) would be amazing for us in that we could get to know some amazing people and their histories that make up who they are. I'm not sure what GOD has in store for my future husband and me, but I cannot wait to find out!  

Leave and Cleave

As I have been sitting in this jury assembly suite, I have been thinking about the type of person I have become. Being surrounded by new people,  I am very surprised by my ability to be personable and social with each person and treat them the way that I would like to be treated. I also have gotten to experience a real life moment. This day .... these past two hours... have allowed me to think in an adult mindset. These past couple hours have also served as preparation for what is yet to come... adulthood. While this is overwhelming and scary, it is also exciting to enter into a world of independence (leaving and cleaving) to a world with another person. I discussed this topic with my dad on our date night Saturday night. I expressed just how difficult that will be for me, simply because I have been dependent on my parents for twenty-two years now. It is strange and liberating to think that I am not going to be obligated to call my parents for each and every decision I make. Instead, I will have my own new family that will come before all others (besides GOD). I am very grateful for my family, and I cannot wait to extend that family even further. What a blessing! 

Across the Universe

"Thoughts meander like a restless wind inside a letter box  they tumble blindly as they make their way across the    universe"

-The Beatles

I went to a Beatles Tribute Night downtown last night on a date with my dad. This song really stuck out to me... both for the music and the lyrics. I think this quote  perfectly illustrates my situation right now. My mind is a constant whirlwind of thoughts and concerns. How is it that I am a wife-to-be? How did I get here? It seems just yesterday I was writing a prince charming list and placing my first name with possible last names. And now here I am... I have found the last name of my dreams! Now etching the name "Kelly Puckett" on my notes and doodles throughout the day, I am overwhelmed by all of the changes that are yet to come. It's the best type of overwhelmed there is, however. It is the type of overwhelmed that creates the best possible circumstances; it is the type that means I will soon be married to a great man, and strive to be a great woman for him. It is the type of overwhelmed that keeps me up at night as I imagine the wedding, our home, our kids, our jobs, our lives. I can't imagine marrying anyone else, and that fact makes my thoughts that make their way across the universe that much more valuable. 

Reflections

"How is it that we all somehow reach that place? The place where dreams and reality collide, sending a person into a crazy phenomenon of excitement, worry, and straight up fear. Now that that place is edging closer, we all have to somehow face the concept of massive change. Monumental change. Life-revealing change that, if you are not careful, could warp you into someone you do not recognize when you drag your butt to the mirror each morning. How do we defend ourselves against that possibility? We hold on to our dreams and passions... the things that mesh together to form who we truly are, sitting in the cubicle, or at a desk, or on a plane traveling the world. Whether a businessman, a jet setter, a teacher, a missionary, or a cubicle-dweller, we are all bonded by one statement -- life is what you make it. It is only worth living if you chase your dreams, in a career or otherwise. We must hang on, grasp for, embrace the things that make us want to strive and try. These things serve as the blood that pumps out beings back to life. They flow through our veins, providing us with the necessary sigh of contentment during a week from Hades. Change is upon us, coming from all directions. We must ask ourselves -- how can we make life into something that grows who we were born to be? Simple. Do what you love, and love what you do. There is not greater life than this."

This is a journal entry i wrote on January 28, 2009. Lately, I have been struggling with the idea of my future. I am immensely excited about being married and having an amazing, GOD-centered marriage. However, everything else continues to be somewhat of a question mark. While student teaching, I have realized that I do love to teach. In what setting ... I'm not sure. Public school , though an honorable place where teachers prepare students for their future, is not for me. Recently, my fiance and I have been looking at missions possibilities through the International Missions Board. I have been praying for GOD to let us know what it is that He desires for us to do, and where to be. Nigeria has been a key place on our minds and hearts as we seek missions opportunities. I do realize that missions is probably in our future. However, the years leading up to that (date still unknown) are full of uncertainty. I graduate in May, then get married in June, and start a completely new life. Teaching is the most practical choice for a career. But is practical what GOD wants us to do? what He wants us to be? I have constantly been jumping back and forth (since I can remember) between teaching and _____. In that blank could be: missions, counseling, youth ministry, worship leading/music 'stuff'. I go through phases where I say "Okay, GOD. It's all yours. I know You have a plan for my life. I trust you." Then, for some reason, I jump back many steps and start freaking out. We are such selfish beings, and the above quote proves that. Not once did I mention GOD's will or plan. Not once did I discuss the need for prayer, and GOD's power ruling over all. No. It is all about me, and what I love and want to do. I am reading a book called "Breaking Free" by Beth Moore. It talks about how to break free from captivity and really trust GOD in all situations. Mid-Winter this weekend showed me that I need to be way less selfish, and let go of what I want in order to reflect Christ. I sure am not reflecting Him now. How can I be a witness to others without fully being a reflection of Christ? Life is what we make it, but how we make it is up to GOD.